Is it to late should I do it or leave it?

Sooo we asked my husbands brother and wife to be my sons godparents. Recently I feel like for whatever reason our relationship has gone distance like it’s not like it used to be before, they would come to our house and we would all talk. Now they go to everyones house but not ours it low key bothers me because idk if I did something or said something I dont know. Sometimes when my husbands whole family is all together we all talk and stuff but there will be times where sometimes “certain” people say stuff as talking shit. I just feel like I do try to be nice to her and talk to her cool. But lately I feel like I dont need to be behind peoples ass. Because we’re both grown ups we both have kids. But with everything that has been going on it’s making me rethink how them being my sons godparents the ceremony is in October pretty everything is good to go. Yet I don’t want a relationship with someone who doesn’t make an effort to do things right or makes me feel like I did something wrong they everything stopped. I wanna be able to have a good relationship with my sons future godparents. Idk 😐