Helpppp

I know this is very weird but I’m a 17 year old virgin who has basically not gotten freaky with any guy before and I’ve been trying to explore myself down there and get familiar with my you know what and I’m having issues locating my clitoris and I’m scared that maybe I don’t have one and I know this makes no sense but can anyone help me out? I also get pretty aroused but I don’t really feel pleasure from touching myself I’m I doing something wrong? Would really appreciate some responses thank yo.