Am I wrong for being upset?

My birthday was a few weeks ago. The day before my husband of 10 years says he hasn't bought me anything, apologises and asks what I want. I said it's fine, I don't need a surprise, but that I do need to buy new clothes since I havent bought any since our first was born, 4 years ago, so it would be nice to do that. He says sure, and gives me 200 dollars. I'm a stay at home mom and we have separate accounts because we had our own accounts before we met and it just stayed that way. We do have access to each others accounts if we want to though.

A few days later he complains about money and how I always want things (me not having bought clothes for four years should tell you just about how true that is) etc. I don't know why. I offer to not spend anything he gave me so we have more money, if that's a problem, but he angrily turns me down.

Now my husbands birthday is coming up and he told me he has given himself a tattoo for birthday gift and it's estimated to cost 1k. So I guess we're all good with money now. Am I wrong for being upset with this? I don't care about him spending money on a tattoo. I'm upset because he made it feel like I'm not worth anything. My birthday gift was considerably cheaper than his, which is okay I don't care about that, but it's upsetting me that he complained about having to spend money on me.

Am I overreacting?