Should I reach out to him even tho he’s only been in a new relationship for 4 days? Read below

3 weeks ago I almost messaged this dude asking how he’s been but didn’t. Been super busy with work. So I go to check his FB and noticed that it now says he’s in a relationship since August 27th. Believe it or not I was actually gonna reach out to him this time

Since 2015 on and off I have talked to his guy, we tried dating right after I got out of a relationship but I needed time to work on me. Time passed and he wasn’t too happy with me so got into another relationship which wasn’t great then I spent more time focusing on me. Word got around I was moving back to hometown and he reached out. He offered for us to date and try again and I said I wasn’t ready yet. I need a year to just work on myself. Well it’s been a year and been thinking about him a lot. I know I probably shouldn’t