Should I unfollow my friend on Instagram?

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Ok so I’m 20 years old and we have been best friends since 3rd grade. But she’s been dating this guy for about 2 years and she always ditched me for him. We would hardly hang out. And then she is mad at me for not wanting him to hang out with us. We never hang out alone anymore. And she said she isn’t going to be my friend anymore until I change. But I’m not the one who’s changed... it’s her.
The last tome I talked to her was 2 months ago and she won’t answer my text or calls. So I guess we aren’t friends anymore. 
She’s always looking at my story constantly on snap and Instagram but never like any of my posts

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It was bound to happen. I've lost a some friends over things like this and it's just not a good feeling.
Try and make new friends, then maybe she'll go back to her senses and realize that you can not just ditch people like that.

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She did you a favor now it is time to finish taking the trash out and just block her imo tbh

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Idk, this is like the mother in law story. When you marry, eventually you want your SO to see you as family and come to you rather than his mom for important things. It is the same, this guy is important to her, they have been dating for 2 years, so in a way now he is her family too. I think she could still make time to hang out with you alone tho. Like her bf shouldn’t be her attachment that she has to take everywhere. But also, I have had friends that have wanted to go out and wanted my bf not to come. Like I didn’t get what the problem was, we were going out in a group with guys and girls, why was my bf an issue, it is not like I wasn’t going to socialize with everyone. But if it was an all girls thing, to do girl stuff, I wouldn’t even ask if he wanted to come 🤷🏻‍♀️. Idk . I would attempt to see if she wants to hang out in something that only girls do and see if she insists on bringing her bf. I think she might still want to be your friend, but she doesn’t want it to involve putting aside her bf, who is now an important part of her life.

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Why do you have to do anything involving her on social media at all? I don’t see what un-friending or blocking her will do. She is the one who said she wasn’t going to be your friend anymore unless you agreed to only supervised visits ( 👀 ) like that’s not a major red flag. And she’s actively ignoring you while clearly keeping tabs on you. So God knows what’s she’s playing at. 
If I were you I would tell her let’s all 3 meet up and just say look man this shit is weird and your relationship isn’t going to dictate my life. l want you to know that that is shitty, abnormal, red flag behavior... the fact that you refuse to see your best friend if your boyfriend isn’t there is very bizarre. & I’m not putting up with it. If you are so obsessed with your relationship that you don’t have time for anyone else then you’re a bad friend, and I don’t need or want that. But if you’re being bullied, manipulated, or abused... then know that no matter what the fuck happens, and even if you drive everyone away... you can still pick up a phone and count on me to be there for you. As things stand though... with the way you’re acting... I have nothing to say to you. I’m hurt, and I’m not going to entertain this.
And then I would say nothing to her.

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Honestly who cares if she’s seeing all your posts and doing nothing about it. You’re 20 years old, go live your life without her. Sometimes people come and go. All of these people help shape the person you are. You said y’all have been friends since elementary school so maybe the friendship has just run it’s course and y’all have given each other everything you were meant to give. Losing a friend is never easy especially when you’ve been friends as long as you have. BUT it’s not the end of the world and you will find new friends and those friendships will be amazing. I am 42 and my best friend and I have known each other since 7th grade, however, we got into a huge argument at one point and didn’t speak for about 5 years. Now we have a better relationship than we did. Hold your head up high and know you’re not doing anything wrong. Also keep in mind there could be things going on in their relationship that you don’t know about and maybe she’s too embarrassed to talk to you about. Hanging out with both of them isn’t a bad thing either. You never know he could end up being one of your best friends too.

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I would just block her on everything

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