Bad friend
Okay honestly I don’t need advise I just need to bitch, and I’m kind of hoping you’ll all wanna bitch with me when I’m done.
So I got out of a pretty rocky relationship, and had finally started seeing someone again. We talked for a couple months before things got a little lot official. We were exclusive, at least had discussed being exclusive and agreed we were. Our relationship lasted a total of 8 months. He told me he was in love with me at month 7 and it scared me a bit, not going to lie. I had strong feelings for him but I wasn’t ready to tell him I loved him. He was okay with it, or so I thought. While everything was fine between us, he started sleeping with other people behind my back.
We had plans on thanksgiving (yes it’s been a while now but bear with me) because both of our families weren’t having dinner the day of. Well he canceled on me for some “alone time” and of course I called my best friend to cry about it. And this is the same girl who watched us together every step, told people how perfect we were together, listened to me cry when I could tell things were going down hill and I didn’t know what to do. Turns out, his “alone time” consisted of spending the day with my best friend, sleeping with her, and then dumping me for her three days later.
Over the course of those 3 days, I knew something was up, and cried to my best friend every single day. While she was with him and hiding it from me.
Now let’s fast forward to now, they dated for about 7 months and he broke up with her. Then she found out he cheated multiple times, he gave her an STD, he beat on her, he treated her a type of way I had never expected from him. But now she thinks I’m gonna give her a place to stay since they lived together (she lived with me before moving in with him) and he kicked her out.
YALL THE AUDACITY OF THIS GIRL 😭
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.