My husband is making me feel bad 😢

So ladies how would you feel if your body was going through something because I’ve been spotting when we have sex plus I’ve been in pain down there so I told him no sex until I go to the doctors so now he’s been acting funny and giving me the cold shoulder. What would you ladies do in this situation and I don’t like giving head because it makes me gag really bad and he’s mad about that too.