Just needed to vent!

So my husband and I had an appointment with a FS on Friday. Its literally all I can think about now.

I have a longer cycle about 33 days usually. Some time longer some times shorter. For the last 17 months I've been doing day 21 bloods some with say I've ovulated some i havent. Ive also done 3 round of letrozole ovulated twice. And ive some a hsg to see if my tunes are blocked which they arent.

The FS was so ... incredibly... blunt and rude. Full of snarky comments like "maybe you should be teaching me... your job isn't active... you need to lose weight" my all time favourite comment was "im not here to judge you .... but i will.. im judging"

She suggested IVF straight away ... didn't provide us with really any information... i actually dont have a reason as to why im not falling pregnant- which i explained to her was important for me.

Absolutely gobsmacked at her lack of bedside matter. We explained to her how we are feeling and there ... was nothing. Just the snarky remarks .... im actually exhausted about thinking about it.

I understand they have a job to do but I honestly think I expected to much too much. I shouldn't have expected compassion and I shouldn't have expected answers right?

I know she isn't the dr for us and we won't be seeing her again im just utterly disappointed that I thought we might actually get some where with all of this. Instead we sat there was 30 mins being spoken down to like we were ... nothing.

Im the kind of girl who doesnt get too upset over .. well any thing but after that I came home and cried. ... and cried some more.... for 3 hrs until I eventually couldn't cry any more.

Know your worth and find a dr thats right for you!

Does any one else have a horror story to share!?!