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I was “dating” this guy. Later found out he lied about everything he told me. I stopped talking to him, because he said he was no longer attracted to me, said I wasn’t his type and he was using me for sex, then I found out I was pregnant. I told him I was pregnant and he said congratulations you’ll be a great mom. Then he said I know we aren’t together but I want to continue to have sex with you. I said no and he was pissed. I’m currently almost 8 months. So I know I’ve been pregnant for a while. I’ve been going to all of my appointments alone. He has me blocked. When i found out I was pregnant he said he was just a sperm donor. Before he blocked me I told him I was done with him and as long as he gives up rights I won’t contact him again. That’s when he blocked me. I got a female to get his new number for me though Instagram. She did. That’s when I found out he blocked me and changed his number. So I text the number that she gave me. And I found out it was his new number, because he answered when I called it. he thought it was the female from a Instagram calling him. He was so angry when he found out it was me, that he told me I promised not to contact him, and that we agreed he would just be a sperm donor. I told him the only reason I contacted him was because he changed his number or blocked me, and I needed to stay in contact with him so that he could give up rights when the baby is born. That’s when he told me he’s not giving up rights because he doesn’t want to do anything legal, that he’s done with me and the baby, but he doesn’t want to put anything on paper, or even make a video of him saying that he’s giving up rights. He’s even threatened me saying that if I try to take him to court he will do everything he can to get full custody. I told him well i guess I’ll see you in court because If you don’t want to give up rights, you need to be in her life. That’s when he told me he lied about everything the whole time he knew me. The whole year we talked, he said he lied about his name, and everything. He said that I would never be able to find him, I don’t even know if he really is in the military like he said he was.. I told him that he’s free to live his life and I would never contact him again. Because honestly I feel helpless, knowing that he lied to me about everything. I don’t Even know where he lived he said that’s not his place that was his friend’s house. His friend doesn’t live there anymore. I never even met that friend. He’s been around my family, but I’ve never been around his, because I live in Georgia and when I met him he claimed all of his family lived in New York because that is where he’s from. I told him that I would contact the military base before I told him that I was done and he was free, but he told me I would never find him in the military because I don’t know his real name. I just don’t want him to pop up in my life or my daughters life in the future, I don’t want anything to do with him. But he’s threatened me many times that he’s coming for full custody. So I don’t know if he’s going to leave me alone and move on with his life or if he isn’t. Before we stop talking he refused to even tell me his real name. I think he blocked me again because he hasn’t been responding to my messages for months or maybe he changed his number again. Do I actually have a case in court, or am I stuck to wonder if he would just come in our life whenever he wants to? No point in showing lawyer text because I found out he was changing his number by using text apps and he said he would just lie in court and say that he never sent me any of the text and that it isn’t even his number. He said over the phone that he would pretend to not know that I was pregnant and that he found out on social media. I know you don’t know because you aren’t a lawyer but I would love to have any advice. Thank you
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