Should I be worried?

Question

I was trying to find a cooking video on YouTube that my husband and I watched together on his phone, and I saw in his previous watched videos a couple videos about ‘I’m gay and I’m married to a woman’ or ‘My husband is gay- how I coped’ or something like that.
I’m very tentative to bring it up bc it was almost 100% just a recommended video that he was curious about watching but I’m also a tad bit nervous that he himself searched that up..?
What to you ladies think?
Should I mention it gently or just let it be?
Side point- we are very happily married and he is always turned on by me, but I really wouldn’t be surprised if he WAS bi 😳

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I would bring it up. May actually help him in coming out with it.

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I would leave it alone. IF that’s something he may be experiencing, you bringing it up will likely freak him out and shove him in the closet.

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I wouldn’t mention it. If your relationship is fine and you trust him, I wouldn’t worry. The “how I coped” videos make me think they aren’t related to you because it wouldn’t apply to him. But if you are worried, I would just say “hey I found these in your YouTube history and it caught me off guard. Is everything okay?”

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If it were me and things were great as you describe then id have just tapped him and light-heartedly said hmmm whats this in your recently watched  history 😏 
the discussion would proceed or drop from there depending how he'd react to that inquiry i guess.

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You can view the search history in settings.

Should I be worried?

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