hi everyone

so everyone always told me how hard it is balancing your marriage with your new parenting life— which I knew would be different obviously but didn’t really listen to everyone’s scary opinions while i was pregnant.

but it is hard. we’ve been in a rut the last few weeks and I need some advice.

my husband apparently “left his phone at a restaurant” this afternoon while he was there on his lunch break (forgot it when he returned to work). he apparently got there around 1:30, then arrived home at 6. but when he got home at 6, it was very obvious he was still buzzed from having “a few” beers at lunch. just didn’t add up that he’d still have a buzz with it being 4 hours since he had drank....

then he was saying the name “autumn” in his sleep just now.

is that a sign that I need to talk to him like what the heck do I even do with that..? I’m probably over analyzing this entire situation but i’m pretty worried.

maybe i’m just psycho.