Why are men and boy so mean and rude? growing up I have been made fun of and called names like “ fat ass “ “ pig, elephant, stupid, even things like k*** yourself, starve yourself“ then when I got older and felt a bit more confident, I have had men call me fat bitch for not wanting to date them, stupid, dumb ass for talking back and having my own opinion? Or holding my ground, or being told messed up insults in the street or even in my own home by my brothers, and if I stand up for myself I am torn the fuck down, why is this? What’s the psychological reason behind this?