Moms of big babies

So my baby is in the 99th percentile for everything.

Does anyone else's mother or MIL tell you to not feed your baby so much?

My baby is EBF and its really bugging me my mom says this because my baby is only 10 weeks and this is a very critical time for brain growth. I am not gonna starve her!!! Besides I have read up on what path to take to prevent childhood obesity....

It just really pisses me off that shes basically only worried my baby will be "fat"

My baby was born 9 lb 5 oz and 22 inches long. I myself am 5' 9.5" and was also apply a bigger baby myself and so were my sisters and many cousins in the family. I am also not obese and lead or try to lead a healthy and active lifestyle

I just never want her to tell my daughter negative things about her body, its so toxic