Husbands

Is there anyone’s husband who is just a complete gentleman even when angry? My husband is a great person but he definitely has an anger problem. And when angry will call me names and say a depend on him financially and I’m lazy, even though I work he just makes more. It’s really getting to me lately and I’m starting to not want to be with him but I don’t really know anyone who doesn’t have the same problems with their husband/boyfriend. I said he is emotionally abusive and he said that I abuse him 🙄