Gender

Hi all,

My boyfriend and I always wanted a baby girl, we have been talking about it since starting my TTC journey 5years ago. We even call it project Sara as that’s the name we picked. I’m finally pregnant after the second round of IVF.

I have a feeling that my boyfriend will be disappointed if we get a boy. I mentioned last time to him, that I would maybe like it more if I would get a boy and afterwards maybe a second child a girl. While I really don’t care and want a happy healthy baby (or 2 - transferred 2 embryos).

He was really mad at me saying oh we already planned everything and now I’m changing plans (he meant wishes). He is well educated so he knows I can’t pick the gender 😊

I know I’m not the only one dealing with this, so looking for some advice how to react and not to get sad every time I have to think about a gender scan.