Vbac vs cesrean

So my first I had to have a cesrean my daughter wouldn't come out was in labor for 16 hours was stuck at a 3 so my dr did we couldn't wait any longer because my water was broken early that morning it was not a good experience for me I passed out cause I could feel the pain I didn't get the bonding I wanted with my daughter here we are 21 weeks with our second daughter Sophia and I asked if I had to have another one he said I didn't have too if I didn't want too that I could do VBAC but i am scared!! My husband wants to try for boy later in the future and my dr advised me that if I have another cesrean that he would need to have me fixed because the risk is too high as in high risk but if I can have my daughter natrual I could try for another one in future.. has anyone had a successful VBAC?