Not a fan of being held

He’s my third boy. My first two loved to be snuggled. My second practically lived in my ergo carrier. However, this little one would rather lie in front of me and chat, or sit in his swing or play on the floor. He enjoys attention from me but just doesn’t care to be held and if I do hold him he has to be facing outward. I also have a hard time nursing him when we are away from home or if there is a lot of noise. He’s always listening or looking around. Anyone else have a babe who would prefer not to be held? He’s my last little peanut and I wish I could get all the snuggles in 😢