Here's a SIL post

So bare with me. 34wks preg n face is breaking out.

My husbands sister and I have a very fake relationship. Mainly because she's fake???!

We've been married for 4yrs ive seen her 6times tops. Each time is stamped with her acting up. Some may remember past post a while ago but anyway refresher!

1- she invited me out to Cali to go clubbing casino royal party( 1st outing since having 1st baby). I Flew there she decided she was tired. Okay... Hubby daughter and I meet up with her at cheesecake factory- she brings her friend who lets it slip theyre going out still. The friend invites me to come along. SIL tells me we dont have time for me to change to wear my sweater to the club. Husband pays for every1s food including the random friend. We rush to hotel to change. She keeps texting him were taking too long and shes going to leave me. Husband drops me at her house and she literraly was driving out the driveway. Ugh it was a bad night and she was rude. Wish I stayed with my baby girl.

2- havent heard from her for over a yr I give birth to a baby boy and its our 1st christmas as a small fam I made sure to tell families we want to enjoy it solo. Just the 4 of us. She randomly invites herself just for christmas eve and christmas. She comes with one gift for the kids. A dog that shakes it butt. She then gets into an argument with me telling me I'm saying my daughters name wrong and that I spelt my sons name wrong. I'm like wtf??? She doesn't apologize until she gets in the uber to leave boxing day morning via text message saying she didn't think it was a big deal.

3- I get pregnant with 3rd baby hear nothing from her. Two months later I miscarry. They planned a dinner for their dad for the next week. Litterally 7 days after I miscarried- no condolences or anything when I see her. This is the end of November she missed kids bday n brought nothing for their christmas- she flys out- I see her- my blood boils- I just dont want to acknowledge her so I don't- I'm fucked up and grieving. We go through the party. I retire early. She tells every1 I'm snobbing her w.e

4- I get pregnant 2 months later. She sends a congrats msg...girl bye. Here we are 8 months later. All our bdays are within 8days. So I'm away from my husband - SIL decides to visit my husband during our bday week. Sneaky. So my husband orders cakes for me and the kids at my moms house. My daughters bday is 1st(the 7th) she's now 4. Her cake had to be picked up 3days earlier cuz of covid stuff. It was a unicorn cake- cant close the box- super decorated- so I call up hubby and we do her bday the day we picked up the cake. 3 days later on the actual day sister calls her from hubby phone and starts being passive aggressive with her. "How are u suppose to have a bday with no cake, how can u blow out candles with no cake, ur wishes cant come true without cake on your bday" this is a 37yr old woman talking to a 4yr old. My whole family heard this. My daughter held her own so I didnt need to spit fire. I told my husband about her behaviour and to address it with her. He didn't.

5- 3days later(10th) its my bday we pick up a whole new cake ordered by hubby- daughters isnt done yet btw. Its my 30th!!! I'm doing me- to the best of my 33week pregger ability. So. I'm sleeping. SIL who is in my house all week with hubby sends me happy bday text at 5pm(girrrrrlll). 5:07 pm my husband calls me asking why I havent msgd his sister yet. Bruuuuh. I tell him leave me alone on my 30th don't ruin with nonsense bout ur sister. He goes on about his family having a pow wow and that his sister has reached out to me 3 times but I'm being disrescptful.

My blood pressure rises I cuss him out like are u 4real ruining my 30th on some bull sister. I replied to her at 11 pm. Then angrily cried myself to sleep. Could be hormones.

6- so 3days later its her bday(13th) she's 37...so maturrrrre! She flew back to Cali so 3hr difference. So I wait till 8pm and msg her happy bday so its 5 pm for her( petty me). Of course I hear nothing back. Then today comes around I wait till midday then screenshotted the msgs to my husband. I tell him never to ruin an occasion for me if u cant do the same to her and to just never entertain conversation about his sister to me ever again. He said he'll ask her about it. I strictly say no and to leave it all be because its not even like its her bday anymore she got away Scott free on that day! He ignores all that and msgs her. Her reply...I msgd late she didn't have time to get to me till legit he msgs her...

I'm so done. Tmr is my sons bday. Ive been going through false labour since the day b4 my bday. I dont understand y I always have to let by gones be by gones and accept half ass attempts whilst this older woman lives life her way and has no repercussions. Like shes his only sibling! I asked my daughter who can name all my sisters n friends( even the ones she met once) what her dads sister name is she said Toronto. If I were to ask my husband what I have done wrong to his sister I doubt he could come up with 2 things...I havent even posted other grievances. Wish my husband was an only child.