Husband attempted to cheat

Yesterday I went to my bff house so she can braid my hair and my husband made a date with a prostitute!! I'm so angry with him he thinks because he didn't do anything it's ok when it's not. My husband doesn't like me going over there because I had a fling with her brother almost 9yrs ago. I told him about it because I didn't want him to think I was keeping secrets. The thing is when I do go over there I don't see or speak to him at ALL! He lives in the basement and I'm always upstairs. Instead of my husband talking to me about it he agreed to drop me off over there I thought he was going to lowes to finish remodeling the bathroom. I get a notification on my phone of messages from his google voice( I set it up without him knowing). It's from a number telling him to meet at a room and ok babe don't make me wait.... I did everything I could not to punch him in the face I ended up breaking out out front door window. He didn't say sorry he blamed me for going over there. Saying I went where another dude was so fuck it ima set up with a prostitute. His exact words was you stopped me so why are you even mad. Should I stab him now or later.....?? We have only been married a year and half no kids together I have 3 ttc and he does this! I expected this out of my ex not my husband 🤦🏾‍♀️ I hate him...

I only set up the Google voice because his phone is always on silent or vibrate. He stays in the bathroom a long time. In the past he has texted ppl and deleted the messages so I wouldn't get mad in the past. He talks so much how much he loves me and we are going to do this and that. I support his dreams I've been there for him when no one else was. He helps me take care of my kids he took me out of 13yr hell relationship showed me everything love was supposed to be. He keeps saying I shouldn't go over but that's not a excuse to attempt to cheat on me. In my eyes he did and I would never do anything like that to him. He thinks because I cheated on my ex I'm going to cheat on him. I can't even bring up my kid's dad in a conversation about previous issues without him getting mad saying well go back and be with him. I show him nothing but love and respect idk where this is coming from. Is he really that mad about someone I was with almost 10yrs ago??? My husband is younger than me by 4yrs no kids no real relationship.

Only thing is I can't leave both the houses are in his name if I leave we will be homeless. My uncle and granny bought the other house. I'm not working and my kids school is literally around the corner. I don't have any income and I'm not going back to renting when I own.