Do you cum?

Was chatting with my new co-workers and got to the topic of sex. They don't use any toys because they prefer just penetration. However, sex just stops after their partner orgasms. But what about the females?? Where do all their pent up emotions go???? I'm lucky enough that all my past partners have either made me cum with their fingers or toys but I always get to cum. Curious about other women and their experiences