First time mom, worst experience ever!

Nallely

Me and my husband have been TTC for 8 years, we finally got pregnant. I went yesterday to my first ultrasound apt. Second time going to that OBGYN, they did abdominal ultrasound. I am sure i could see baby and its little heart. But after a few minutes tech wouldnt say anythinh. I asked her if there was a baby in there, all she said was she could see the yolk sac, and yhe DR would answer all my questions. They did urine test. DR comes in the room and says, something weird is going on because theire urine test and my at home pregnancy test came back positive but ultrasound shows no baby. As you can imagine my heart sunk! i was in disbelief because i have been doing daily at home test and all posite. And there was also blood test showing increasing HCG. I did not feel any empathy coming from this DR. She started saying it might have been chemical pregnancy. And then started going on and on about my weight. I was very annoyed because, how can you sit there and not consider the fact that i came in for my first ultrasound for baby and your just going on about my weight meanwhile i am sitting there heartbroken. I am 5’6 weight 258. After 10 or more minutes of her talking about my weight, i ask her i didnt understand why the urine and blood test would show positive. She responded with, theres no way blood test would show positive, she looked at her screen and saw the blood test they had done, which was a 4051 HCG. She said “oh my gosh girl what os going on this is so weird” She then said that she didnt understand why it is positive if there is no baby when they did ultrasound. She said baby might be where it should not be and i might have to go to ER because it can rupture my falopian tube. She said she will order vaginal ultrasound. I was so scared but i saw a glimpse of hope. I waited and finally they did the ultrasound and my baby was there, i heard the heartbeat twice. My baby measures 7 weeks and 1 day. I was very happy but still in disbelief of what just happened. What if i woul have left? and not asked about the blood test tbat THEY did? I hope this does not happen to anyone ever! Horrible experience, my first baby and i went thru this. But im happy that my baby is fine. BTW, nobody apologized at all.