Am I being dramatic??

Due to the people my grandmother surrounds herself with, I have banned her from having pictures of my children (age 2 & 4 months). She allowed my mother to be sexually abused as a child by multiple family members until she moved out at 17. I was exposed to those same people forcefully by my grandmother as a kid, so was my older sister.

I’ve told my mother that I didn’t want her in my kids lives. I have her blocked on all social media. I have her phone number blocked. She doesn’t know my address. I cut her out of my life completely almost 3 years ago when my husband & I moved out of state when I was pregnant with my daughter.

I’m going back to my home state next month for my best friends wedding. I’ve recently found out that my Aunt has been stealing pictures of my kids off my Facebook & printing them off for my grandmother.

My aunt is now blocked & cut out. When I go back home I 100% intend to walk into my grandmothers house & rip every single goddamn picture of my kids out of that house..

I will NOT even begin to entertain the sick fantasies of the pedophiles she allows into her home by giving them access to pictures of my children.

I told my mom this & she said I’m being dramatic. I think I have every right to control who can & cannot have pictures of MY kids.