20 year old dating 33 year old?

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Do you guys think a 20 year old girl dating a 33 year old guy is “too much” of an age gap?

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Everyone is different. I’m 30 and honestly I can’t stand 20 year olds lol haven’t met one that isn’t immature and annoying.

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I don’t think this has a lot to do with if the 20 year old is “mature”.  I think it has more to do with why a 33 year old wants to be with someone that is 20.  Is the 33 year old immature, inexperienced with life and/or relationships or maybe socially inept?  Is the 33 year old trying to be with someone that can be more easily controlled and/or groomed to be the way they want the other person to be?  Maybe it is just based on personality and interests.  If that’s the case, I don’t think there’s an issue with the age gap but that is rarely the case with a 33 year old vs a 20 year old.

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I wouldn't be interested in a 33 year old and I'm 22. I also wouldn't be interested in a 20 year old and I'm only 2 years older than that so I don't see why someone in their 30s is into someone so young either

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Age doesn’t matter but an imbalanced power dynamic absolutely does. 
With these particular ages, there is most definitely an imbalanced power dynamic. 
One person has been functioning as an adult for more than a decade while the other has only begun getting to know their adult self.

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Yes. 20 years old is barely not a teenager anymore 🥴

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The only issue is stages of life I think. So is the 20 year old in school ? Do they have a career? What about friends and a social life? So pretty much when I was 20 I was definitely not in the same place as a 30 year old might be you know.

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I’m 24, my boyfriend is 35 (11 year age gap). We’ve been dating for 3 years this November. I personally feel 20+ is too much of an age gap but truthfully, no one’s relationship bothers me or affects me personally therefore it’s none of my business. As long as it’s a healthy and safe partnership then live and let live.

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I’m 22 and my husband is 52. We have a 14 month old and another on the way. We’re very much in love with each other and have been for years!

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I’m 25 and my fiancé is 36 and there’s nothing different about our relationship. Actually best one I’ve ever been in.

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Personally I dont think there is a problem. People on here saying that a 20 year old isnt mature enough?!?! Ya'll crazy! By the time I was 20 I had a fulltime job, planning my wedding and a mortgage. People grow up at different paces. So at the end of the day it all comes down to the maturity of the people involved in the relationship rather than the age gap (keeping in mind that they are both legally of age)

20 year old dating 33 year old?

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