I recently got married and I swear to god every time we go to see family someone will say “oh wait to have kids for a long time, like 35 is a good start time”. No prompting, just completely random. First question: do every single one of y’all have kids and just immediately regret the timing? And another thing, I always pictured myself getting down on the ground playing with my kids sledding with them, hiking with them, doing a whole bunch of outdoorsy stuff and if my knees and back are going bad now- god only knows what they’ll look like in ten years.

FYI I’ve already gotten situated at my career and have my bachelors degree and all that fun stuff- so I’m not too terribly young haha. Just put the younger ages to get honest answers.