Marriage failed....

My one year anniversary would be tomorrow, but shortly after we got married I had ectopic pregnancy (about month after marriage) found out was pregnant 2 days after we got married. Well after we lost pregnancy I got depressed and he started cheating on me with his female co worker. Was in December he went to work Christmas party and didn’t take me with and never returned home all weekend. Then every weekend in January he would disappear all weekend. At end of January he left me and filed divorce week later. Blames me for everything, says I falsely accused him of cheating yet seen all the messages exchanged from the two. She broke up with him after he left me for lying to her as well. He wouldn’t work on a divorce settlement with me up until recently but now that he is talking to a new woman he is avoiding talking to me to work on the settlement that was agreed to. And now that it would have been a one year anniversary tomorrow I am feeling down, feeling like I will never find someone that will love me and maybe the husband I did marry never really loved me to run to another woman when I needed him to help us both through the loss of a 3 pregnancy. Ladies am I the only one that had a short term marriage??