National bf day

Hey y’all! I can’t lie, I have been giving my bf a hard time attitude wise. I’m a freshman in college, an athlete at that so I’m trying to get used to everything but naturally I’ve been so stressed. He’s an athlete too so I know he understands but at the same time I know I’ve been a dick. National bf day is next saturday (october 3rd) and i was thinking about getting us a room with rose pedals and candles- i also ordered some lingerie off of Shein. Do y’all think that’s too girly? Is this a good idea? Or should I get him some nike socks or something lol. Please reply, a bitch needs HELP