Has your S/O gone “soft” on you during sex?

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This morning while my boyfriend and I were having sex, he just all of a sudden got soft? It made me very self-conscious. Especially because in the mornings my room is very bright so I figured maybe he was looking at my stretch marks or how much belly fat I carry and got turned off? I don’t know. 
I asked him about it and he said he didn’t know why he got soft. I feel embarrassed and so self-conscious about my stomach and stretch mark. Do you ladies feel like this can turn a man off? 
Has your significant other gone soft on you and did they tell you why?! 
This may be silly but it’s sort of bothering me. And this isn’t the first time he’s went soft on me while inside.

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He honestly probably just lost the mood...nothing to do with you...happened to my partner for a while and happens when he gets too tired..:anything can trigger it suppose but I really doubt it’s anything to do with you

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Honeztly, just ask him. It probably has nothing to do with your body. Sometimes guys focus on distracting themselves during sex so they don't climax too fast, and that can backfire and cause them to lose their erection. Or just like women, they xan fet too much info their own heads and lose it. Or there could be a physical reason (blood pressure or testosterone issues are common causes).

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Happens to every guy at some point. Nothing is wrong with him.

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Nothing to do with you. Men just do, sometimes they don't know why.
Sometimes they're so turned on they lose it

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The first time this happened to me I was so upset too. It does make you feel like complete crap. 
But, at this point it has happened so much. And no I don't feel sad or like it is a me problem. Just like girls sometimes have trouble getting wet guys can have trouble getting/staying hard. 
There are so many things that it could be! Possible medications, caffeine, tired, feeling sick, or maybe just not even in the mood at that point in time. Try not to make a big deal out of it because making him feel bad about it will just put a damper on your sexual relationship!

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This happened to and my boyfriend just last month. I cried and cried and cried because for 1. We have been trying to have our first baby and he went soft on the one good day we had to get pregnant because our work schedules suck ass. 2. I felt like something was wrong with me. I have gain a little or 20 lbs over the last 6 months for some stupid reason so I thought that was it. I've never been "skinny" just your average 5'6" woman in a 185lb body. Smallest I've ever bee. Was like 150 my senior year of high school.  We've been together now 7 years and I'm about 35-40lbs heavier so I was convinced it was that. 
BUT come to find out it was because his back hurt. Mind you he's 135lbs soak and wet so I kinda got pissed when he told me that but here we are a month later and his back is REALLY REALLY MESSED UP so I guess it really was just from pain... moral of my story don't hate on yourself. You are beautiful. I assume and pray he loves you for who you are. Love yourself.

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when i was having sex today with my boyfriend he literally goes “omg why do you have cuts right here” and i was like “uh that’s stretch marks” bro that shit turned me off so much i literally was like nah i’m done. i’m too self conscious for that shit😭😭

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You said you felt embarrassed and like it was you.....but I’ve had this talk with my man and he almost broke down. He told me “it’s embarrassing for me and I don’t know why it happens and then it hurts because you get upset about something I can’t control.” And I never bitched about it again. 
I know it’s hard to believe it isn’t you, but I think a majority of the time, it really isn’t. Just take a deep breath and talk to him about it.

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Eh it happens sometimes. Might not be any real reason. Penises are weird🤷🏼‍♀️Don’t stress.

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Yea it’s happened to me before as well.

Has your S/O gone “soft” on you during sex?

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