Is sexy painful for anyone else?

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I had my baby on the 1st but I’m hoping someone else has tried sex so far lol. We’ve done it about 10-15 times so far and it hurts! Not my vagina, but my cervix! My partner is very big but I had gotten used to it over the years and actually enjoyed it and there were positions I could do that didn’t hurt my cervix but now every single position hurts and he can barely get halfway in before my cervix starts hurting? Why??? Also a few days ago he actually ended up ripping me which is odd because I didn’t have any tears when I gave birth

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Were you cleared by your doctor? Because they don't tell you not to have sex because of your vagina... It's for your cervix and your uterus. It takes a while for your cervix to go back to it's position. Also, you have a huge wound in your uterus where your placenta was attached and you are at huge risk of causing an infection up there. I think it's probably painful because you didn't let it heal properly.
Also, the tearing is because of your hormones. After birth your estrogen levels drop and cause dryness in your vagina. This dryness also causes the tissues and skin in your vagina to become thin and fragile. If you don't use lubricant, it'll just rip your skin like tissue paper. So you tearing has nothing to do with the size of his penis and everything to do with friction and the fact that your body is still healing and adjusting and you're not giving it what it needs. Those tears you got from sex are also now at risk of infection.
Seriously, you should wait until you're cleared by a doctor. If you have been cleared, you need to talk about the pain you're feeling before you have sex again instead of just continuing on like nothing is wrong.

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Ever since I got pregnant for that one month up till now I have not had sex  because I am a single mom 3 kids ❤❤

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We tried around week 7 after I was cleared, hurt like a mofo. Gonna give it a few more weeks.

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I had my baby July 31st hubby and I recently tried to have sex and it hurt so bad just putting it in I was shaking and crying. Shit hurt worse than pushing out my daughter😂 needless to say we aren’t having sex right now lol

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I have had sex 2 times and my partner is large as well my cervix hurts too but there are certain positions I can do that are comfortable. I mean we did just open our vagina to the size of a bagel so it’s going to be sore even when cleared by a doctor. I did not tear but for my son I did and it hurt for a while.

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I gave birth on the first as well but haven’t tired it yet! I’m scared haha. Doctor didn’t clear me yet, have to wait another month. 
I had a second degree tear

Is sexy painful for anyone else?

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