would you be mad at him or her?

My neighbor told me my man looks good & even told him to his face which pissed me off alone. Then yesterday we were sitting outside talking to her and she was talking about stomachs (because i just had a baby) and she tried showing my man her stomach to show how “skinny” hers is. I FLIPPED. Then she keeps trying to talk to him literally she’ll yell from her from side to his side (never did this before) to get him

attention. I also have post partum depression so everything is gettin to me. What do I do? I told him if he can ignore her which he claims he does (i saw different yesterday) What to do? I’m so frustrated I literally want to move. 😭 She’s also 16 years older than him so I dont know why she’s doing this.