I need sex advice!!

Alright ladies, I need your tips!!

I am 22 and my boyfriend is 27. We’ve been together for a little over a year now and we’ve gotten into a sexual rut. We don’t have sex as often and it’s definitely become less exciting. It’s hard to spice things up with him because he’s not into sexting, flirty talk or ANYTHING of that nature. He’s pretty basic sexually which is okay and it’s definitely enjoyable, I just like a little fun and flirtation 😂😫

There’s also a big disconnect in our sex drives. I definitely have a higher sex drive, and I’m definitely more sexually intense than he is, so if he initiates sex it’s just by touching me while we’re already in bed. I like a little bit of spontaneity and initiation in other places!

Lately he’s been trying to play this game where he starts to touch me to get me riled up and then just stops. I know he’s purposely trying to make me go crazy and beg for it, but for once I want to have the power that way and make him want ME that badly. What can I do to add a little spice and make things a little more intense and passionate? I have no idea what to do that will catch his attention enough to be unable to resist me. I want that intensity and even a little bit of aggression. Have you ladies been able to find anything to bring that out in a guy??

Thanks in advance 😜