He smokes cigarettes and pot inside our home and every time I ask why he can’t do it outside he has an excuse. And on top of that the money we would save from him not smoking would be enough to allow me to comfortably stay at home with our kids. I resent the fact that he expects me to find a higher paying job in order to afford daycare when I’d rather be at home with our kids until they’re at school age. I feel like he only cares about himself sometimes and I hate that I feel that way.