Do people come to you too?

I’ve been wondering a lot lately what it is about me that makes people want to come to me and tell me their secrets and their pain.

I don’t mind it, and I am trustworthy. And I do try to help where I can. But, this has been happening a lot where people I’ve never had a previous friendship with before just message me asking if they can call me. Even women I have had “drama” with in the past, when we were younger.

Everyone comes to me and tells me their deepest darkest secrets and pain when they have no guarantee that it will be kept secret because they don’t truly know me.

I’m just wondering if this happens to other people too. Or If I give off this vibe that I will keep your secrets buried in a vault for you and won’t judge you no matter what it is. I think people talk, I think people who have come to me before tell other people to come to me. I am like the diary of everyone in this area. I have been for years and I don’t know what it is. Ever heard “skeletons in the closet” I am the closet. People bring me their skeletons to look at.

And to add: I don’t mind this at all. People CAN come to me. They can trust me. I don’t judge. I just want to know why they do it