Tired of my in-laws 😒

I like to carry my baby and love him all I want right now that he’s small, but my in laws keep saying that I’m spoiling him. Or “embrazilando” him. It’s a Spanish word for making him only want to be in my arms. I know I can’t spoil a newborn but they don’t seem to get it. I also like the perks of him being close to increase my milk supply. They think I just want to keep him to myself but I just want to bond with him. He just turned 3 weeks and my mother in law comes over every day without even calling ahead. I’m trying to get a hang of breast feeding but I’m shy so I don’t like to whip out a boob in front of her. I just need space and for people to keep their advice to themselves. It’s bad enough that I can’t get much sleep since my fiancé started work again. 😩