So to sum the story up, I got out of a relationship about a year ago with my partner of 7 and half years and we had been trying to conceive for 2 years with no success. I then in April 2020 started seeing a new guy, to me this guy isn’t the one for me long term as I wasn’t truly over my ex boyfriends. So we decided to just be friends but I’ve found out yesterday I’m 6 weeks pregnant. He wants me to have an abortion ideally as he’s a student who finished his studies next summer and only works part time and lives with his parents. I work full time and survive month to month as I don’t have any extra income spare as currently clearing 15k+ worth of debt I ended up getting in my last relationship and struggle month to month as I live in a shared flat with my sister and have all my bills to pay.

The problem is deep down this is something I had only dreamed about, but he’s just not the right guy and I’m not finically where I want to be.

But a massive part of me wants to keep the baby, but then I feel I’m being so selfish and worried it may cause problems in the future.

I don’t have many friends I can speak to about this, I really don’t know what to do. Has anyone been in this situation, any sort of advice. I don’t have long to make a decision but I don’t want to make a quick decision either.