I spoke up. Domestic violence.

I finally told my family I was being abused. I was told “are you being a abused or do you just want to believe you are so you can leave him” “do you just want to be abused so you can leave”. I was with him for 4 years. I was pushed around and I was told I was the reason he wanted to kill himself among other things. I found him touching himself watching porn while she was asleep on top of him(my daughter) . My family knows and asked me why I don’t let him see her. What’s wrong with people? Why was my abuse being gaslighted and I was  portrayed as the abuser? They still talk to him and have him on there social media. I want this to be over.