i’m not sure what to do we’ve been ttc for a year now and nothing he is 30 i’m 22 been together for 2 years now and he wants to start taking testosterone off the streets for muscle growth.🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️😭😭

i told him so many times that it will make it harder for us to conceive and he will make it worse for us but i’m not 100% did a lot of research on it and he claims he will be fine and only wants to do it for 3-6 months only.

he hasn’t started it yet and won’t go to the doctor or even get it monitored bc he says the dr wil proscribe him the same things since he does have low testosterone as it is. he knows how much having a family means to me and i’m not sure how much longer i can deal with this!

what do you ladies thinnk i should do? he is very stubborn and doesn’t want to go to the doctor we both do not have insurance and plan to possibly start infertility testing for both of us soon. i think there’s no point in moving forward for ttc if this is what he wants.