hey girlss, my name is destiny and i’m 15 years old :)) i recently just started experimenting with masturbation and self-pleasure & i decided to hop on here to suggest some pre-touching & post-touching tips for other young women like me!!

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before you touch yourself:

•get comfy! find a nice position on a bed, couch, or chair that relaxes your body even further.

•make sure you have a towel/blanket under you in case it gets messy! p.s.- it will :))

•get in comfy clothes! i usually wear my pajamas (t-shirt and short shorts) just because it’s easiest! or even just simply go without the extra clothing ;)

•if you’re not familiar with your lady parts or how they change during arousal, i suggest doing some research!! sex-ed definitely didn’t teach me about different kinds of orgasms so look up anything you’re interested in first!

•drink some water! try to level out your pH as much as possible with liquids and yummy healthy foods!

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after you touch yourself:

•shower/bathe if possible! if you’ve orgasmed, or even if you just have pre-cum, it’s always good to get that gunk out!!

•if you can’t take a shower or bathe, i recommend going pee and wiping down there a couple times! i use cleansing wipes to get everything out, but just toilet paper would work fine too! remember to be gentle, you’re still sensitive :))

•wash those hands girl!! it’s always nice to get some amazing soap, lather up, and put on your favorite lotion after!!

•affirmations!! these are always overlooked, but i promise you being kind to yourself is very important! there’s so much stigma around girls masturbating, and we’re not here for that! remind yourself that you deserve this!! not only does masturbation relieve stress, it has shown signs to strengthen the immune system :))

go get em girl!! you deserve to be pleasured :))

all my love,

destiny🖤