Long labia minora?

Alexis • 25 mommy of 2

So I basically have like “meat curtains” is what I’ve heard them be called. I’m a little self conscious about it but my partner sees nothing wrong with it and is attracted to me anyways. But I tear a lot. During sex but also like just everyday movement! I try to prevent it by being gentle/lubing up, but it still happens all the time. It’s painful too. Does anyone else have this problem? Or know any solutions? Should I see my gyno?