Argue with hubby over newborn

My husband keep criticising my parenting skills we have a 6 week old daughter I notice she sleeps well during the day but from 7pm till 11pm she will be screaming her lungs out she has colic I give her infantcole but when it his turn to do the night and she cries like that he just let her cry none stop while he’s playing PS4 he’s reason is that he don’t want her to get used to being in the arms when I take her she sleeps on my chest for whole which helps stop the cry then I put her back to her crib but I notice she nose my smell too well so when he has her she won’t stop crying he’s blaming me saying it my fault because I always pick her up on the first cry making me feel like a bad mom because I won’t let my newborn cry for long. He’s so judgemental always making negative criticism about my parenting I get no help from him around the house the clwaning cooking laundry then looking after our two yr old son 😥😥😥I feel so shitty am I in the wrong