TMI POST!! How would you handle this?

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I woke up to this message requests on facebook and these pics and ss. The messages she sent showed the date of oct 2019.  They are from Oct 2019 and I've only been with my bf since Jan of this year. So this is obv his past. Everyone has a past. I know that but I'm struggling with this.  We are planning to get married Feb coming. I know he isn't cheating on me now and hasn't since we have been together.  For a fact , I have no doubts whatsoever. And I know these are old but it kind of makes me mad. Like why would I get these messages suddenly? Maybe someone is mad and trying to split us up? Idk. It's petty but I need some female advice. Bc I'm emotional. I'm not fighting with him over this, I'm not mad at him. Just hurt and confused why someone would send this to me now. They are dick pics and videos and her nudes.

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But do the pics look like his dick 
I’d definitely be investigating 
😂😂

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I’d be like “who are you peasant,who sent you “ 😂😂😂 and then ask you partner who tf it is 😂 get his answer and let it go lol

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This would bug me. I would need to know who was trying to mess with my relationship. It’s prob some psycho that’s super jealous of you & trying to get into ur head and break u guys up. Creepy though. Like others said I would def contact local pd (non emergency line) see if they can help in any way. Or hire urself a pi and have them get to the bottom of it. Someone like this would give me the creeps.

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An adult that sends a nude photo of another adult without their consent can be charged with harassment or sued in civil court. 
That bitch has no class and I’d report her honestly🤷🏻‍♀️

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Usually “Facebook user” means the account got deleted I thought? Anyways she’s probably just jealous and crazy. I’ve had that happen with my SO and he was innocent too. Save the convo and next time you get a message, say you’ll file for harassment

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She’s just a bored Hoe that’s trying to get under your skin and stir shit up between you and your man. Block her cause she clearly doesn’t have anything better to do with her life than start trouble. This was before and you are happy with your man!

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Just brush it off... she’s just bored. If you know these are old she’s just trying to start drama. The less reaction from you the madder she will be.

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I’d just assume it was spam and not worry about it.

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Could be spam

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My partner’s ex is CRAZY when I say CRAZY I mean it she’s a physco (literally what I call her) she’s tried to ruin our relationship so many times and March next year I’ve been with him 7 years, we have our own house 3 kids and 2 dogs and he started driving March this year she would ring me saying she knows he’s got a car blah blah blah... She rang me 5 weeks back saying I know you’ve pushed another one of his kids out 🙄 she knows we’re planning a wedding was suppose to get married august but cause of covid it didn’t happen we have now planned it for our 7 year anniversary.. She found rang our register office gave them all my details saying today “ i need to register my daughter I think my appointments today but I’ve forgot what time” the register said “no your appointment today at 11am is for your notice of marriage” she goes “oh cancel that” and sent an email tried to change my phone saying that her number was my new number... We was already at the register office so they knew something was off and told us, we’ve had to put code on it and also where we’re getting married has a code she also found out our wedding cake maker and cancelled our cake 🙄 some people are jealous as F*CK will try and ruin you or your relationship.

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