AM I NOT ATTRACTED TO MY HUSBAND ?

You should know that we were together for 3 years, broke up for 2 and got back together, married with a 3 yo daughter. We broke up bc of his lies and cheating. I used to be very affectionate but I’m just not anymore after we broke up. He has completely changed and matured and realizes how much he took me for granted along with our daughter but I’m not how I used to be and he knew this but it’s taking a toll on our relationship...

I’m pregnant with our son now and what’s ironic is I have NO sex drive like I did with our daughter (I wanted to have sex then but he didn’t). Now it’s the complete opposite. He basically wants me to be gushing over him and I’m just not like that anymore! Idk of its a defense mechanism or what but I kind conditioned myself to be this way while I was single. Mostly affectionate with my daughter only.

I feel like I can’t give him what he wants and it’s breaking both of our hearts. I feel uncomfortable kissing intimately and just pretty much want to be PG with him.

I’m not sure what to do besides see a therapist.