I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month now, I really like him and we always have a good time together. My gut tells me things are going well but I’ve been thinking about asking him where he sees things going and basically asking him what he would say we are. I just want to make sure we both still want the same things and are both on the same page so no one gets hurt too badly. We’ve hung out every weekend since around late September except this one this his brother came to town. We also talk everyday, not always a full on conversation but we at least say something to each other. When we first met, he said he was looking for something serious where we take our time but also don’t waste time. And then after our second date, he said he was hoping that I would be his girlfriend soon but hasn’t asked.