so awhile ago i had sex for the first time. it wasn’t pleasurable at all for me obviously but after a taking some time to think about it. i’m not sure if my cherry was actually popped. 1, i didn’t bleed as much as people told me i would and 2 i didn’t feel anything during it besides pain of course and people told me i would definitely know if it got popped. the bleeding that did happen may have been caused just by my vagina being expanded more then it ever has. i did some research on what my hymen would look like before and after being broken but frankly i never looked at it before i had sex so i don’t know if it looks any different. i’m only 16 and for a while i wasn’t too scared about losing my virginity and i felt normal afterwards but now i’ve started to overthink and the boy i did it with dumped me so i kinda don’t want to admit to him taking my virginity. i may be coming up with excuses to make me believe he didn’t take my virginity but i just don’t know... what do y’all think?