Needing to vent

Just really needing to vent, I’m almost 7 weeks pregnant and I don’t know if it’s my hormones in overdrive or what but me and my husband have been knocking heads more lately. His comments are just really putting me in down moods.

Examples, I washed his hat for work cause it was down right dirty - he’s a plumber and this particular day was in a septic tank and I hung it to dry. I didn’t think anything of it but he let me know that his hat was all “fucked up” now and thank god our job ordered new ones. I just let it go but it still stung.

Then not to long after that, I had bought him some insoles for his work boots and he was raving how amazing they are, I said I’m glad they are helping and he said “you take care of me good, all I know how to do is take care of you sexually” I didn’t say anything but I don’t know even what to take by that comment. It just made me feel a type of way.

Then today, the last two days we’ve talked on the phone he just acts like he doesn’t care about anything at all and barely says two words to me when usually hes all excited and happy, and I made the comment why have you been acting different on the phone? Is it cause you’re riding with someone (we talk on his way home from work) so he said I am talking to you, what do you want me to do jump for joy like really.... and I just got quiet cause it hurt that he said that and i just said ok, and he said I don’t know what you want from me and I just said nothing and we hung up from there.

This is our first child together but we have a total of 5 kids between the 2 of us. I just haven’t spoke much to him since, he did say to me, youre mad at me just like everyone else.... idk what he meant by that cause usually he tells me but i just told him what he said hurt and just trying to have some space between us to keep from arguing cause that’s the last thing I want to do.

We haven’t spoke to one another since so idk what to do or even how to feel at this moment other than the tears I’ve been crying non stop.