I have difficulty understanding certain behaviour.. I would say I’m overal empathetic and always try to understand everyone which may be my flaw..

Anyway! There’s a few people in my life who shut off when they’re feeling bad.

They want my presence, but they don’t really want to talk or anything.

Because I’m in a different country at the moment I can’t physically be there so I end up just not speaking to him ( it’s my bf in this case) all day and he ends up feeling even worse.

Him and I have spoken about this many times but I can’t seem to get the hang of it.

So I was wondering if any of you do the same thing he does and would be willing to show me your point of view on what you would need and why you do it..

I understand it is different for everyone and the real solution is between my man and I, but I think maybe this could help me understand more.

Thanks in advance 😘