“are you sure ur a virgin?”

ok so when I lost my virginity, the guy went inside me really easily. he then asked “r unsure ur a virgin??” this really bothered me for the longest time. I felt broken or like I was too loose or something. it made me feel so insecure.

I am with a new guy now for a year and things are great. I just sometimes think of that comment from that other guy and it makes me insecure. maybe he was just too small?? idk. anyone else have similar experience??