So for those who saw my previous post about my boyfriend we were finally able to talk about our relationship even deeper than I expected. So I’m thankful for those who helped me in the previous post. So I’m asking for more help relating my previous post.

For those who don’t know my boyfriend literally lost almost every income he had recently. And now our “argument” is that how or where he should move on. He was self-employed doing sneaker drops and stocks. Due to unfortunate events he lost a lots of money and he can’t do any of those.

However he would have a very important sneaker drop in December which what he could go and build back his finances. But for that he would need money. There is no way he would accept money from me. He is also on bad terms with his parents and they never supported him. I told him he should ask for basically loan from other family members, but he refused this idea because he did everything he accomplished from scratch by himself without any help since he was young. And he said he would betray himself if he ask money from someone.

He is also refusing to get a regular job. Since if he would get one we wouldn’t be able to speak because I live in Europe and he live in the US. And he said he should drive at least 3 hours to work everyday which is very tiring which also not want him to take a regular job. Not but not least since he always wanted to do things he love for work and he finally built it from scratch he said he would be very depressed to work a 9 to 5 and that would help his mental health at all.

Right now he is really depressed. Lost almost every hope he has. Even considered that if he would die no one would miss him since his parents don’t care about him. And we also had an argument and he felt that I’m also against him (but we made u at least).

I just want to help him in anyways I can so any tips or recommendations would help!