Moms who don’t like clinginess...how do you balance?

I’m expecting my first child and sometimes I worry that I may be cold at times towards them because I don’t really like neediness or clinginess when it comes to people or animals.

I love my pets but when they get too demanding I simply close my bedroom door and take some time for myself.

I prefer to show my BEST self to my loved ones and that sometimes requires me to recharge mentally.

I wasn’t a clingy child and I didn’t have a very involved mom, she raised me to be very independent...overly independent to a degree.

Anyone else feel the same? How do you show love to your child when they need it but also take time to yourself?

DISCLAIMER: I am very unfazed by rude comments or comments along the lines of “you’re heartless” “you shouldn’t be having a child” “hate to break it to you but” you’re wasting your time.

I only wish to hear from people who can provide positive advice.

Thanks!