My fellow switches

I’m a switch and I’ve always been with subs, we mixed it up once I’ve a while but I was usual the dominant. But now I’m dating a switch and I’m not used to be fighting for the power, I always get nervous around him because he’s really good at teasing. He can take my confidence and turn it into nervousness in seconds which is very hot but I want to surprise him.

Can you give some tips on how to gain control from switches? Maybe things to say?