i’m only 14 turning 15 in a month,(jan 15) and my bf is 20.... it’s not THAT bad ....right?

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It’s illegal. What does he want with a child?!?

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He will go to jail if that gets out, it’ll illegal.
Also something is mentally unstable with him if he’s 20 and is attracted to a 14 year old. Super creepy. Once you’re both adults it doesn’t matter, but you’re a child and he is not.

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Oh honey. No. That’s definitely creepy. And illegal. You need to get out of that and fast. Make sure your parents know so they can help you cut ties with him safely. How did you even meet this guy? What would a 20 yo be doing to meet and get into a relationship with a 14 year old?!

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Umm why would a man want with a kid CANT HE FIND SOMEONE HIS AGE , are your parents aware of this ?

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i was once in a relationship with a man who was 22 & i was 15. it is NOT right & you may not realize it now but there are a lot of things that he already knows that you won’t & not only is he grooming you but he will most likely use that against you to get his way whenever, making you inevitably feel small & insignificant. Because he is “adult” & he “knows”. but realistically he is in fact grooming you & a predator. i’m sorry girl but get yourself out of that situation as soon as you can & focus on yourself, school & finding who you are. 
if he really cares about you he will have no problem waiting until you’re 18 years old to even consider this again.. but i doubt that’s going to be the case. trust me, it was the most difficult experience of my life.

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You’re a a child and that is an adult.  You have no business interacting with each other. He should know better and you are letting him groom you. You may not see it like that right now but wait a couple years and you will understand.

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I am in a relationship with a man who would have been 20 when I was 14. Here are my thoughts…it’s not ok, it is in fact completely inexcusable from his part. You are not a legal adult, and if he thinks it’s ok, he has dated other girls your age. Why does he date younger girls because he has learned to manipulate them in a way that no woman his age would allow. 
I am all for age gaps like I said I am 19 and my boyfriend is 20 but they should be legal. I am such a completely different person then I was then. I acted so grown and really I was immature and nieve. (I am not saying you are love). 
My advice is stay away from him. Trust that he is with you for your age and nothing else. Simply because he likes having control over someone.

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Mmm that would make him a pedophile

i’m only 14 turning 15 in a month,(jan 15) and my bf is 20.... it’s not THAT bad ....right?

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